What I’ve marveled at this past week is how bright light shines when it enters a dark place. How people come out of the woodwork with acts of kindness when they sense you need it most.
Like this meme said so clearly (thank you notsalmon.com:
The new of hurricane Hermine was EVERYWHERE, and the location of Sarasota was front and center. Sure, we had our generator ready to go and the pantry and fridge stocked; candles ready to light and our phones and iPads fully charged.
But what really lit me up were the messages that flooded us (far more than the storm did.)
The big galoot I used to work with five years ago who private messaged to make sure I was OK. He’s not the warm, fuzzy type – so his concern touched me especially. The Facebook posts from family asking for updates and reminding us to “batten down the hatches.”
Not to make light of what was a damaging storm to many in our area, I do thank Hermine for passing through simply for the kind connections that made us feel so cared for this past week.
I observed from afar a dear friend undergo surgery for that “C” word this past week, and firmly believe that the love he was bombed with expedited what his doctors are calling an amazing recovery.
Darkness brings out the best light in us.
There’s something particularly fierce and vocal about our expressions of love and kindness when someone we care about is going through a tough time. We become demonstrative and lavish…and it’s a beautiful thing that, having NOT gone through that dark tunnel we might not know otherwise.
I am reminded that we need to be that way with ourselves – whether it’s the big “C” or a little hormonal uprising. Kindness is the special sauce that makes anything we face in life not only palatable but sometimes, remarkably wonderful.
Here’s a little bit more about how KINDNESS touched my path this week:
Feel free to choose your own word, but like I said, I’m sticking with HUMOR.
(And feel free to tell me a joke!)