Happy Labor Day weekend!
I set a new world’s record for napping this week, which is one of my favorite things to do, along with reading good books and meeting new people. It was a wonderful vacation, though not at all what I expected when we booked this cruise to Alaska. (You’ll find out why when you hear my preamble to this week’s video reveal…)
Last week’s word was TRUTH and I realized the importance of stepping away from the daily routine and unplugging my electronic devices to come to terms with what was really going on INSIDE of me.
We can blame our frustrations on other people and their behaviors, but this course leads to no resolve. Instead, taking the time to reflect and ask questions like, “WHY does this person annoy me so much?” or “Why do my buttons always get pushed in this particular scenario?” resulted in valuable answers.
My TRUTH revealed this week is that I have been trying to be superwoman to prove my worth in my professional and personal life. Anything that seems to shine a light on imperfection or a failure flares up a turmoil that results in responses that are LESS than my best me.
And really, is my worth wrapped around how quickly I respond to e-mails? Sounds silly when written out…
I was UNPLUGGED this week and the world didn’t end.
This inflated sense of self is really the other side of the coin of low self esteem.
I have decided that henceforth I can only do my best. Anything more or anything less is just me trying to compensate for fears…
…and signals that I’m not voting with LOVE, which is my highest aim.
I’ve felt a low-level anxiety leave this week, and it’s not invited back. I do not want to be driven to produce. I want life and projects and friendships to FLOW as spillover of my love tank being full.
Note to self: If you’re love tank is empty, FILL IT. Stop looking to other people to do it for me!
So THIS week’s WOW is a great opportunity to put all that I learned into play. Here we go!
What’s that? I think I actually heard some of you thinking, “Well, I’m just not a creative person…”
Every time you’ve thought “outside of the box” or dreamed a dream for your life, you’ve been creative. Every imagination that led to an action was YOU, creating your life.
This week, I’m going back to the best book I ever read about creativity, The Artists Way by Julia Cameron. My sister recommended it highly; my niece, Deena created the cards we pull each week after reading it, and my friend Renee surprised me with the book, workbook and a daily meditation based on the book one Christmas. So rich with insight, I’ve picked it up and put it down again a multitude of times in recent years, and I discover something new each time.
So from the chapter “Spiritual Electricity: The Basic Principles” is a great foundation from which to begin our week:
How do you know if you are creatively blocked? Jealousy is an excellent clue. Are there artists whom you resent? Do you tell yourself, “I could do that, if only…” Do you tell yourself that if only you took your creative potential seriously you might:
- Stop telling yourself, “It’s too late.”
- Stop waiting until you make enough money to do something you’d really love.
- Stop telling yourself, “It’s just my ego” whenever you yearn for a more creative life.
- Stop telling yourself that dreams don’t matter, that they are only dreams and that you should be more sensible.
- Stop fearing that your family and friends would think you crazy.
- Stop telling yourself that creativity is a luxury and you should be grateful for what you’ve got.
Brenda speaking here: Have you heard those voices in your head?
I shout through the computer: IT’S NOT TOO LATE! YOUR DREAMS MATTER!
And yes, let’s be grateful for what we have, but never diminish the part of you yearning for more.
Let’s nurture our creativity this week; make some messy stabs at building something new; applaud our missteps as they lead us closer to our dreams…
The biggest concept around our WOW is that WE are the creators of our own life story. Our free will, our imaginations, our choices; the respect given to our dreams and heart’s desires…they all combine to write the novel that can be our happy ending.
Yes, I believe in the grace of God (oh boy, do I!) and Divine intervention. But too often we hide behind these truths and never get about the business of doing OUR part.
So let’s do our part this week, and write an exciting chapter in our lives.
How do you see creativity playing out in your life this week?